wow. i just read this in one sitting and while i didn't cry, i still feel so emotional and overall comforted right now. as a nonbinary person, i saw a lot of myself in ben and enjoyed following his struggles, friendships and, of course, his love story with nathan. they're such a likable main character and this book managed to be lighthearted and funny while also talking about serious topics like getting out of an abusive family, therapy, gender identity etc. loved this !