I had such high hopes for this book. I wish I could write a glowing “no notes” review. But I just didn’t love it like I hoped I would. Don’t get me wrong, it’s very cute, the writing is good, and it’s a fun plot. BUT. 

The book is set at Wellesley College in Massachusetts, which is where the author attended college. Wellesley is mentioned so much in the book, right down to what floor of what building the meeting room is on, the names of the dorms and dining halls, and many other uber-specific details. Which I am sure is great if you went to Wellesley, but really took away from the story for me. 

Now, for the good: I did love the layout of the book. There are instagram stories and posts in the book that are formatted to look like actual posts, which is very cool. I also enjoyed the alternating POVs. It was cool to get to see two characters from very different backgrounds, the way they think, and how they view themselves in relation to the rest of society. The advice given in the instagram posts is so college, I loved it. 

And most importantly: the acearo representation is SO. GOOD. I am so glad this book exists for the youth, as they discover who they are and are seeking labels to make them feel less alone. I love how the author goes into such detail with both of the main characters’ where the reader gets to see their inner thoughts and feelings which tie into their acearo identities. 

I still recommend this, just know it’s going to be Wellesley-heavy and is a YA. Especially recommend if you are ace, aro, or love someone who is either or both!