Matty,, Vic,,,, : call me.

anyway,, some of the analysis/conjecture around gender isn't really correct anymore, given our updated understandings of gender as a three-category hierarchy, and some discussions would be much more interesting with the recent increase in consciousness and visibility for trans people (in the case of these discussions, mostly trans men). but to hold up this well after nearly 35 years is incredible, and I and most of my friends owe my/our lives to these women.