This is such an amazingly important book for the Christian evangelical culture. I cannot recommend it highly enough. The one chapter I didn't like was ch 8 because the authors 1) seemed to imply that it was still the woman's job to make th first effort to make her marriage better (I think this was inadvertent and an issue with examples, as it goes against the overall message of their book). And 2) said that one woman didn't want to have sex out of laziness, which is unfair due to the high rate of undiagnosed neurodivergence in the female population.

Barring that chapter, it was all wonderful and helpful.