I understand that "rapey" isn’t an officially recognized term, but it perfectly captures the unsettling atmosphere that permeated this entire book, particularly in the final section. No matter the arguments to the contrary, what transpired was undeniably sexual assault, and it felt as though the author made a misguided attempt to romanticize it. The lack of accountability and the attempt to present the situation in a more palatable light left me feeling disturbed and disappointed.