Have your wine, toys, and an open mind when reading this book.  Set aside any preconceived notions of morality.  The Sex Lives of African Women is far superior; there's simply no comparison.

'I fantasize about being fucked in a church. In the pews, under the stained-glass windows, staring at Jesus on the cross.'

It is interesting to observe the diversity of human fantasies and fetishes.
The book is a worthwhile read, although I suspect the initial sections will be more engaging than what follows.