The Emotionally Desteuctive Relationship is a great tool for both pastors, counselors, and people seeking wisdom on relational and emotional health. Vernick breaks down what an emotionally destructive relationship is and how to identify one. She then gives wise tools to empower those enduring a destructive relationship the power to protect themselves and set healthy boundaries. The last section about surviving are tools to help see yourself as Christ see's you, destroying the lies of the enemy, and steps toward a healthy life.
I cannot rave about this book enough. It took me a while to read because I needed time to process. Many self help books talk about the problem but rarely give a solution. The Emotionally Destructive Relationship, addresses the problem and empowers you for change. It is very well executed and a must read for those in positions of leadership and those have endured toxic relationships alike. I have a deep appreciation that everything is brought back to scripture while still addressing psychology and counseling strategies. It helped me tremendously in my healing journey.