Honestly, I was expecting this book to be extremely informative and useful but found it very bland as someone who has been poly for 13 years. It explained attachment theory twice,which feltrredundant and had long sections that I skipped as they were explaining what I found to be basic polyamory theory. 

The segments that were really useful would have been just fine as like two blog posts. It really felt like it was padded out to justify a whole book, which just made me less engaged with it.