This is the book I want all of my cis friends to read, the ones who say they really want to try and understand what it's like for me and other trans folx. These exchanges of letters between Ivan and all sorts of folx who were touched by their storytelling becomes a revealing glimpse into the heart and soul of humanity. It also happens to describe the lived experience of many trans folx and the people who love them. Seriously, I'm getting a copy for each friend of mine who considers themself an ally supporting sexual and gender diversity.