A review by onemorebookpodcast
A Woman Is No Man by Etaf Rum

5.0



A country’s violent invasion & continued occupancy, the oppression of a people, loss, trauma that is passed down through generations, migration & the desperate need by a people to try & hold on to what they perceive as their culture is the short version of this heartbreaking yet necessary book.

The stories of Isra, Deya & Fareeda, 3 Palestinian women who are navigating life in a foreign land far away from home that they are to call home while living under the ever present & heavy hand of patriarchy. No single day passes that they are not reminded of their 'place' as women & of their value that is measured only by their ability to be wives & mothers (preferably to sons).

Etaf Rum tells of a tale that is not new to many Women of Color but she does it in a way that despite being heartbreaking, still feels fresh & gripping. This book is so much needed because it not only informs but also inspires. It reminded me of my own privilege & challenged me to do something worthwhile with it while also holding space for those that need it.