I will add a detailed review later. For now, let me just say that Vivek has given some newer, much needed, significant perspective to me, someone who thinks she is an lgbtq+ ally. The discovery that there is still so much left to learn, is sharpened and highlighted by Vivek's book and a lot of her personal experiences. I am going to keep coming back to this book, because Vivek is extremely eloquent and has immense clarity of thought, even if she says she is still in the process of working on her trauma. The book is very tiny, but very powerful.