this has got to be one of my all-time favourites now, I decided on a whim, to get the audiobook from the library and i've never been as happy about deciding to read a random book. i felt so seen and heard with this one, it's ridicolous.
Also just ordered a physical copy so I can read it again and annotate, which has never happened before

Second read:
I don't think I have ever loved a book enough to read it this close to my first read if I even read it for a second time, but there is always a first.