I went into this knowing nothing about the author. She brings a realistic and honest look at the experiences of being a woman, mother, widow, blended family member, and middle aged person, and she is definitely writing only to an audience who fits at least some of those categories. Though the essays bring relevant cultural commentary, this is not a book with major takeaways or prompts for reflection. It felt more like chatting with a funny friend who is good at telling stories; good for a laid back audio listen.