I ended up mostly listening to the audiobook which I highly recommend. I loved every moment and was so engaged, it's not often I can listen to an audiobook and just stare at the wall, entirely lost in the story.

When I tell you this book is so important to me. It's one of those I don't really have the words for because it's just so special. I was tearing up over the opening acknowledgements from the author. The humor is silly and I love it. The gender feels are powerful and overwhelming. The friendship and found family and queerness and diversity and general "lets burn down the establishment" of it all are !!!! just perfect.