This was such an unexpectedly captivating read, with a storyline and flow that immediately drew me in. The author skillfully weaves together numerous compelling themes, including feminism, patriarchy, political uncertainties, navigating strained relationships, jealousy, classism, tribalism, and romance.  

One of the most powerful aspects of the book is its portrayal of societal injustices towards women, particularly concerning property ownership and inheritance.  This theme resonated deeply with me, as it reflects a challenge that persists in many African countries even today. While I agree that Nnambi was an evil stepmother, the question of her inheritance rights raises complex issues.  Perhaps, even while condemning her actions, we can acknowledge the broader societal structures that often deny women their rightful inheritance.  

The book also effectively illustrates the impact of political instability such as rape, abduction, killings, and tribal cleansing etc. The depiction of the tribal divide between the Basoga and Buganda people was intriguing, and I've made a mental note to research this further. 

 I was deeply saddened by Kirabo's lifelong feeling of rejection, especially given the genuine love and acceptance she found with her other family.  How I wish Tom had defied his mother and allowed Kirabo to stay with him.  Nnaku's situation is also complex. While her circumstances surrounding Kirabo's birth are understandable, her later failure to acknowledge and rectify her mistakes is heartbreaking.  The author effectively portrays Kirabo's feelings of rejection.

 All in all, this was a truly thought-provoking and engaging read.