Note: This book is primarily aimed at sexually active cis-females. Nagoski does include an authors note about how the science and research this book is based around is, unfortunately, not grounded in non-cis participants.


This book is so important.

If you are, or engage sexually with, a cis-female you absolutely should read this book. Nagoski breaks down the myths and expectations perpetuated on female sexuality with humour, earnestness and the most clear-cut analogies I've come across (pun intented).

The book encompasses a wide range of perspectives and differences that occur in cis-female sexuality and normalizes them in a way which is empowering for the reader. Absolutely check this book out.