He just ignores all of her boundaries. I get that he saved her life and the forced proximity, but emotionally manipulating her into staying longer than necessary is abusive. She has stated multiple times why she doesn't date Alpha's. And I get that's the whole point of the book, but if he tried to make it easier on her, compromise or even try to make the transition go smoothly for her, I'd be on board.
You can't be a self absorbed douche and force a bond. What's the point of a book boyfriend if he's not going to order my favourite desserts and tea while we're forced to cohabitate? Why couldn't the do it at her place instead of his to be more comfortable for her??
Stalk her, yes fine, but at least help a girl out while you're being a creep.