"But aggravating circumstances are for trials, as a way of quantifying loss. But people do not count their tears, and they certainly don't dry them on the sleeves of their anger. Those with no one to blame are alone with their grief."

A poignantly beautiful memoir. You Will Not Have My Hate is the story of grief and loss after the tragic death of Leiris' wife. With how raw the emotions are in this memoir, it will leave you feeling the love, longing, grief, and hope in each of every word.

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"But aggravating circumstances are for trials, as a way of quantifying loss. But people do not count their tears, and they certainly don't dry them on the sleeves of their anger. Those with no one to blame are alone with their grief."

A poignantly beautiful memoir. You Will Not Have My Hate is the story of grief and loss after the tragic death of Leiris' wife. With how raw the emotions are in this memoir, it will leave you feeling the love, longing, grief, and hope in each of every word.