This book spoke so directly to the experiences of both myself and my wife, as two people navigating a relationship where one has ADHD. Being seen so deeply was very validating, even if it was difficult to shed a light on the reality of some pieces of how I (as a person with ADHD) operate with a partner. The strategies in the book ranged from endearingly goofy to challenging & constructive. If you are a person with ADHD who is struggling to make your partner feel loved in the ways that matter, or you are the partner of someone with ADHD, I cannot recommend this book enough!!