Reading update:
Right off the bat I like the tips and most of the stuff said but there are parts where it tells you to withhold information from your partner or like lie about certain things and that I disagree with since I don't want the same thing done to me so I obviously won't do it to my partner if that makes sense.

Review:
My thoughts about this book are very mixed. While I enjoyed the book and did get something out of it I feel like a lot of the book was focused on not telling your partner things, lying about certain things and playing mind games. In order to have a healthy relationship, both sides should avoid doing the things mentioned above, but the book was very heavy on the fact that if we didn't do the above we would be treated like doormats and so on, which isn't the case always right. Some parts also felt very repetitive in the advice like don't do this or you become a doormat or my friend acted a certain way with her man, put him in his place, she isn't a doormat, behave like my friend.