I've come to the conclusion over the past year that I'm likely somewhere on the ace spectrum - demisexual sort of explains it the best, at least at the moment, but that term comes with a lot of questions from others. This book did help validate me and the feelings that many other people experience. Some of the contents of this book were things I already knew, but I especially liked the chapters that discussed the intersectionality between sexual orientation and race/disability. And the beginning of chapter 7 mayyyyy have come for my neck a bit lol.

The author put a lot of research time into this topic, and it shows. She handles the many nuances of the subject very well, and it was a good read.