Rating this really for the stories, the testimonies of the young people -- honest and vulnerable, reminding all of us of the importance of how unhelpful it is to force kids to behave or dress a certain way because of their gender. It's the anxiety of the cishet adults in their lives that causes so much stress and trauma for young people, not the wondering they have over their gender.

That said, the book itself needed a little something -- something to arrange or draw together the stories, some sort of helpful synthesis, to be truly successful