I hated how women were depicted, but that is part of what the story is about. A great read. 

This was neither brief nor wondrous. Truly truly truly I do not give a single fuck if Oscar got laid or not, and yet every time we had to hear about him it was about how he was too fat, nerdy, and ugly to get laid. Womp fucking womp. Oscar is presented as the antithesis of Yunior/Dominican hypermasculinity, and sure on the surface it seems that way - they are physical opposites, and whereas Yunior very easily sleeps around, Oscar can't even talk to a girl; but if you look at Oscar's behavior more deeply, I'd say I disagree. His inability to get a girlfriend doesn't automatically mean he possesses any sort of respectfulness towards women. He still has the inability to leave women alone, is practically a stalker, and in one instance he even gets violent and resorts to misogynistic derogatory names when he catches the girl he likes sleeping with someone. 

This goes along with how much I disliked the level of misogyny in the book. Yeah I understand the narrative of a story doesn't equate to the stance of the author, but I've never seen a book quite as crude as this one, where every female character is regularly described by their ass, tits, and how fuckable they are. Intended or not, I don't believe this book offers any valid criticisms on violent misogyny because the criticisms of machismo itself was weak. Describing bad things that happen to women isn't anything new and doesn't automatically mean criticism. I honestly felt that this story had a very hateful display towards women and I'm not surprised by what I saw after searching up the author. 

The last thing I'll say is that I also found the magical realism in the story to be lacking. I kept hearing about fukú, but I wasn't seeing it. It seemed a rather weak, and unnecessary, explanation for all the tragedies happening to Oscar's family when living under the rule of a dictator is explanation enough. 

The content of the book was not always my fave but I loved the style of writing and the blend of Spanish and English. I read this after hearing it acknowledged in the afterward of Nevada, and totally understand how this book would inspire authors to write their stories unapologetically without being afraid to alienate audiences that don’t share the same identity. 

Learned a lot about the DR and Dominican diaspora!

Geniusly written. Took me a while to finish but I really enjoyed it.

show stopping. brilliant. phenomenal. 10/10. a touching story about intergenerational trauma that left me hopeful.

the narrator of this book really made it for me. surprisingly, it is not oscar. instead, it's a character who we do not meet until about halfway through the book, and even then, he holds little stake in the plot. yunior (the narrator) has such a unique voice as he tells the story of oscar's family, & that made the tales of the trujillo-era dominican republic all the more interesting to me, a white american reader. oscar- the protagonist of this book- is actually never a narrator, even though the book is named after him. i think that adds such an interesting perspective to the story: everyone is talking about oscar, so the book takes you on a ride to finding out who he is through other people's lives. (note: one of the chapters is in the pov of oscar's sister, and there's no real distinction between who is narrating. you just gotta pay attention to how the story is being told to get it.) 

this book travels through three generations of the de leon family: oscar and his sister lola, his mother beli, & beli's parents. though oscar & lola's stories are based in new jersey, beli & her parents are all living in the dominican republic under dictator trujillo. junot diaz does a wonderful job immersing the reader into each generation. in particular, some chapters have footnotes that give historical context, which i found really helpful. the dominican history bleeds through the pages.

ok spoiler time:

the de leon family is cursed w/ a fuku bc abelard, oscar's grandfather, defied trujillo. through the three generations, the de leon family is faced with extreme trauma. lots of death.

diaz knows his stuff about intergenerational trauma. each generation experiences it uniquely as it passes down in different ways. this book is a great examination of how government violence, ie a dictatorship, can extend generations, even decades after the violence has ended. 

this book has MAGICAL REALISM YAYYYY!!! the de leon family is cursed w/ a fuku that travels throughout the story. it's not too prominent, but when it's brought up, diaz knows how to bring it up. he has struck a good balance between a grounded-in-reality story & supernatural elements. also oscar is a sci-fi nerd so i like how both the character & his universe has an affinity for the unrealistic. 

spoiler time again:

oscar dies in the very end :(

the aftermath after that is treated so beautifully that it made me hopeful for the story. of course, the book ends like ten or so pages later, but the tiny epilogue about yunior & the de leon family made me tear up a bit. i love family dynamics, even when they're fucked up <3 

great read!!! this was the second time i've read it but the first was when i was like fourteen, & this book only gets better w/ age. i would recommend this book to dominicans & latines who want to learn more about their history, nerdy outcast kids who grew into nerdy outcast adults, & those w/ an affinity towards tragedies. wonderful book <3