“I wanted to write a book that was real. One that was inspiring and that shed some light on the fact that growing up is hard, and that, contrary to what people try to tell you all the time, there is no such thing as a perfect life.”

I didn’t know what to expect upon picking this memoir up on the 1 year anniversary of Naya’s tragic passing. I used to watch her on Family Matters as a kid. (We were born the same year.) Who would’ve thought that timid little girl who smiled a lot at little Richie would grow up to be a funny, sarcastic, blunt person whose personality is lathered all through these pages? My kind of person.

I laughed out loud a number of times while reading along with the audiobook. It’s so sad that Naya’s no longer here to continue to blossom in all stages of life. I actually could’ve pictured her writing more books and even a comedic coming-of-age screenplay. She had the fitting humor.

Rest in paradise, Naya and thank you for sharing these intimate moments of your life with this memorable ass book. Feels like I knew you. Def will be rereading it.

I loved Naya's book! It was the perfect quick audiobook for car trips. I was expecting a LOT of tea to be spilled (and don't worry, there definitely was) but it was also very inspiring and full of lessons to learn. I was surprised at Naya's background as a child actor and how later, she couldn't get work and developed severe money problems. She definitely shares plenty of mistakes that she's made so you won't have to make the same ones. I loved how open she was about EVERYTHING. This girl doesn't hold back. I also loved the element of her faith. I was really surprised to hear she's a Christian but it's also so refreshing to hear a Hollywood actor share their faith like that! Naya really has a good head on her shoulders. For any Glee fan, you definitely have to check this out to hear what she says about Cory's death, Santana's arc, and bonding with her castmates behind the scenes. I had a great time listening to this book and I highly recommend it to anyone who enjoys celebrity memoirs! I had no idea I loved Naya Rivera so much but after reading this book, I have a whole new level of respect for her!

(5 Stars for the purpose of Good Reads, I don’t typically rate real life stories because it doesn’t feel good to my soul)

I picked up Sorry Not Sorry for a source of comfort following Naya’s death. She and Diana were always my favourite out of the Glee cast and I was able to see myself in Santana and her storyline on Glee. I grew up with Glee, it was a huge and important part of my teenage years, something that I looked forward to in my week. When the news broke of Naya’s death I was extremely heartbroken and eventually came around to listening to the audiobook. I feel like I know her now and I’m grateful to have existed in the same lifetime as someone so vibrant and bright. She was a wonderful soul. Despite the early death, this book shows just how full her life was, although heartbreaking when she talks about her future. This book reads like you are having a conversation with a wise older sister or friend. It’s impossible not to feel so close to Naya when you hear her story. I felt myself feeling so angry for her at certain parts, epesically with her having to go to set the day after her abortion. I’m happy that Jose has this book to read to or even listen to when he’s older. His mother will forever be remembered and have a place in our hearts