This was truly fantastic. A well-crafted memoir that acts as both a telling of Juliet's own story, but also an insight into trans lives, journeys and issues more generally. I would maybe say that at times it is somewhat academic, and at other times quite referential- I found some parts hard to follow, and consider myself to have a fairly good knowledge of trans-related topics in general. That might just be a reflection of my concentration levels at the moment though! Overall, would absolutely recommend, and it's given me another new reading list (and listening list) to work through as well.

This was fabulous! It was, in pretty much every way, not what I was expecting. I love it for that. The narration, was very introspective, when I imagined it would be roar and passionate, because that's how I would've written a memoir, but that says more about me and my hot mess of a mind LOL. Apart from being a story of Jacques's personal journey in transitioning, there is a lot here on transgender portrayals in the media, the fascinating history of how trans people were recognised, and in particular the arguments of radical feminists against trans people. It was brilliant to learn about. Being twenty, I missed the times where even the liberal press were hostile towards transgender individuals, being either unborn, or too young to pick up on the issues. It gave me a greater appreciation for the time that I live in now, as though we have many problems, trans people are adequately respected and given a voice, contrary to as recent as ten years ago. The ending? That was a surprise too, though I'll leave that to be discovered. Let's just say, it doesn't follow the formula of most trans stories you will read. In fact, the whole book intentionally defies it, which I can find an appreciation for. There is always room for knew explorations of well-known topics. So, overall, as a trans person myself, I appreciate this book. I don't give 5 star ratings lightly, but I feel like this one is warranted. In my humble and barely regarded opinion, I think this is required reading for any trans person, or for anyone who wants to better understand the trans community, in any country. Thank you Juliet Jacques, for writing this book.