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The Memory of Love by Aminatta Forna

qqjj's review against another edition

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challenging dark mysterious slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0


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dana_in_denver's review

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3.0

This book is hard to rate with the star system. It unfolds slowly and it is so dark it is hard to find "entertaining." However, it is a book I am glad that I read in that I learned a lot about the civil war in Sierra Leone and about PTSD. 99% of the population of Sierra Leone was considered to have PTSD after the war.

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2.5


โ€˜โ€™๐™ฒ๐š˜๐šž๐š›๐šŠ๐š๐šŽ ๐š’๐šœ ๐š—๐š˜๐š ๐š ๐š‘๐šŠ๐š ๐š’๐š ๐š๐š˜๐š˜๐š” ๐š๐š˜ ๐šœ๐šž๐š›๐šŸ๐š’๐šŸ๐šŽ. ๐š€๐šž๐š’๐š๐šŽ ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ ๐š˜๐š™๐š™๐š˜๐šœ๐š’๐š๐šŽ! ๐šˆ๐š˜๐šž ๐š‘๐šŠ๐š ๐š๐š˜ ๐š‹๐šŽ ๐šŠ ๐šŒ๐š˜๐š ๐šŠ๐š›๐š ๐š๐š˜ ๐šœ๐šž๐š›๐šŸ๐š’๐šŸ๐šŽ."


About the book: ๐™Ž๐™š๐™ฉ ๐™ช๐™ฅ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™›๐™ง๐™š๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™ฃ ๐™๐™ค๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ก, ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™˜๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™จ 3 ๐™ˆ๐™š๐™ฃ, ๐™€๐™ก๐™ž๐™–๐™จ ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ก๐™š, ๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™–๐™˜๐™–๐™™๐™š๐™ข๐™ž๐™˜ ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ค๐™›๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ง, ๐˜ผ๐™™๐™ง๐™ž๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™‡๐™ค๐™˜๐™ ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™ฉ, ๐™– ๐™ฅ๐™จ๐™ฎ๐™˜๐™๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™†๐™–๐™ž ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™–๐™ง๐™–๐™ฎ ๐™– ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ง๐™œ๐™š๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™–๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ž๐™ง ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ƒ๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™๐™ก๐™š๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ž๐™ง ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ซ๐™š๐™จ ๐™™๐™ช๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™–๐™›๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™˜๐™ž๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ก ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ง ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™จ๐™ž๐™š๐™ง๐™ง๐™– ๐™‡๐™š๐™ค๐™ฃ.

Thoughts: ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’˜๐’‚๐’” ๐’’๐’–๐’Š๐’•๐’† ๐’‚ ๐’ƒ๐’–๐’”๐’š ๐’ƒ๐’๐’๐’Œ, ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’˜๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’๐’†๐’†๐’… ๐’•๐’ ๐’‰๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐’‘๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’†๐’๐’„๐’† ๐’Š๐’๐’๐’“๐’…๐’†๐’“ ๐’•๐’ ๐’ˆ๐’†๐’• ๐’•๐’‰๐’“๐’๐’–๐’ˆ๐’‰ ๐’Š๐’•. 
๐‘บ๐’ ๐’”๐’๐’๐’˜ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’…๐’š, ๐’Š๐’• ๐’˜๐’‚๐’” ๐’‚๐’„๐’•๐’–๐’‚๐’๐’๐’š ๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’… ๐’๐’–๐’Ž๐’ƒ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’‚๐’• ๐’•๐’Š๐’Ž๐’†๐’”.
๐‘พ๐’†๐’๐’, ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’”๐’•๐’๐’“๐’š ๐’๐’Š๐’๐’† ๐’Š๐’” ๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’๐’๐’š ๐’Š๐’๐’•๐’†๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ, ๐’Š๐’•'๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’๐’‚๐’“๐’“๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’˜๐’‚๐’” ๐’ƒ๐’๐’“๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ.

๐‘ท๐‘บ, ๐‘ฐ ๐’‹๐’–๐’”๐’• ๐’„๐’๐’–๐’๐’…๐’'๐’• ๐’ƒ๐’“๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’Ž๐’š๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡ ๐’•๐’ ๐’„๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’–๐’• ๐‘จ๐’…๐’“๐’Š๐’‚๐’ ๐’๐’“ ๐‘ฒ๐’‚๐’Š ๐’‚๐’• ๐’‚๐’๐’, ๐’˜๐’Š๐’”๐’‰๐’†๐’… ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’† ๐’˜๐’‚๐’” ๐’‚ ๐’‡๐’†๐’Ž๐’‚๐’๐’† ๐‘ท๐‘ถ๐‘ฝ.

denimbaobab's review

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5.0

I stayed up until 2h30 one Monday morning in order to find out how this tale would end. Mamakay, Kai, Agnes, they filled my dreams for days.

sophiewilliams's review

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2.0

This made me really uncomfortable in parts - very graphic, nonromanticised sex scenes make for difficult reading especially when it's asentences dropped in with very little warning.

Found the relationship between Elias and Safia v odd, and quite stalkerish.

Just didn't suit the mood I was in while listening to it and nearly became a dnf

stephjones71's review

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4.0

Listened to the audio version

booktwitcher23's review against another edition

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emotional informative sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

burrowsi1's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

adrienneturner's review against another edition

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I just could not bring myself to care about Elias or Adrian (kinda hate Elias tbh) and life is just too short to keep muddling through this.

nqcliteracy's review

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5.0

Beautiful, raw, thought-provoking, intricate, poignant, interesting, heavy, and ambitious: I loved this story. It snuck up on me. Deeply adored the characters, felt enraptured by Sierra Leone, and fell in love with the weighted, direct nature of the narration. Everything about the book spoke love, nostalgiaโ€” the trauma of feelingโ€” from the title to the descriptions to the images evoked. Not without its horrors, Forna tells of rebel violence and resulting PTSD with grace and honesty. Family saga with evolving and surprise connected storylines. Raw and wrenching at times but won my heart ten times over. Gorgeous, gorgeous read from an importance voice I want never to forget. Highly recommend.